I start thinking about this when my older sister and liltle sister broke up two days ago.I don't even know they broke up on the same day.So I start thinking how they can break up when they love each other? I asked my older sister why she broke up.She answered me calmly "Because we argued all the time.I'm sick of it".Okay fine if that was the answer.I wondering i argued all the time with her but is she never sick of it?Ehmmmm..Then,I asked my liltle sister.She answered "Ermm..nothing.Just because he's busy with making a music video on his new song".Okay.the guy is not an artist.He just have a band and busy working on their new song.So that the reason.But I'm confused because is it just because the small matter we have to break up with someone we love.Come to think about it.I searched some source and found this one:Here the reason why people break up.
1) Communication problem.
Let me make this clear.I think this mean like when you have something unsatisfied with the person you love, you should tell the truth.For example,when he friend with the other girls and you don't really like it, tell him.Of course we can't make somebody friend with certain person but i'm sure he will understand and not be too be close with that other girl.
2) Growing apart.
I'm not very understand about this one.Heeee.Explain to me if you know.
3) Cheating.
This sure are one of the reason right?It could be the girlfriend or the boyfriend.Maybe they will say that they have no feeling toward their partner.I believe if you really love your partner,your love toward them will never fade.But a lot of people have this reason when they found someone else.
I don't have a "true love" in my life , maybe she still stuck in my dreams (^_^) But I sometimes feel exactly what is going through one after breaking up with the one he/she love ... To be honest I don't want to pass on one day and feel this strong feeling of hate, that can eat the heart inside out ... But I can say to those whose questioning them self the small matters in their relationships :
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Because love is an understanding so complete that you feel as if you are a part of the other person accepting the other person just the way they are and not trying to change them to be something else
Love is the source of unity
" Love is the source of life "
cisss. guna nama aku nmpak! :P
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Shihab:I totally agreed with you!We can change the person we love right?Just accept them at the way they are..!I'm sure you will find your true love one day!Hehehe.
ReplyDeleteMiera: HAHAHA..tu sbgai example la..
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