Have a good personality is very important to everyone.
Even if you are the handsome or prettiest person in the world,that doesn't mean people will love you and adore you like you think they will be.
Because your appearance is nothing to your personality.
Personality tell it all.When you're in public they will see how you act,move,speak.
Not your big eyes,sexy lips,great body,stylish hair.
So,here is some way that I think can make you achieve that great personality.
1) Confidence is key. If you are a shy person then figure out what you are afraid of, and then realize that when you are confident there is nothing to be afraid of. If you are scared of talking to people, find someone you are comfortable around and have a conversation with them, then realise that having a conversation with someone you do not know as well isexactly the same. Reassure yourself everyday that you are amazing.
2) Be humorous and lighthearted. People will thank you for bringing some fun into their world.
3) Always be nice. This is the most important step. No matter who you are, if you are nice, the only reason a person can dislike you is if they are jealous of you. Never be rude people even if you are really worked up - write it down and then tear it up. People don't like mean people because it makes the person feel as though that person could be mean to them. Be nice to everyone: the nerdy guy, the emo girl, you name it. This
leaves way more doors open for friendships and makes people envy you for being so brave.
4) Always be cool, calm and collected. In every single situation you are in you always have to remember to keep your cool. Never start arguments unless it is for a strong argument and you have good argumentative skills. Never argue with people you would like to remain friends with. If you are feeling a little nervous (maybe around a new friend or a guy you like) take a deep breath, forget yourself and just have some fun.
5) Be comfortable with yourself always. Awkward situations always make you feel uncomfortable. However, there is an easy way to prevent this from happening. If you are alone with a person you hardly know or even with a group of people you hardly know. Don't worry about not having anything in common with them, just make light conversation, be friendly and have good eye contact and body language. If you stare awkwardly at them and hardly talk this will make you seem incapable of holding a conversation so just breathe, relax and tell yourself that this person is just like you.
6) Be Happy. Even if you are not happy you must always appear happy (unless you are in a situation where being happy would be rude, e.g funeral). Wearing a smile on your face is the perfect cover and will instantly attract people to you. Even if you do not like a person, always smile at them because even if you don't like them it sucks when they don't like you.
7) Never get caught up in being "popular", people will see what you are doing and lose respect for you. A real popular person is a person who has a great personality and does not try hard to become popular. Having a dependable group of friends is always the key to getting more friends because you will always have these people to fall back on. Just remember not to forget about them when you make new friends and never use people in a nasty way because people will be able to tell and that will make you look tacky.
8) Think about what makes you respect other people, if you want to be respected. Wear clothes that are stylish and not slutty or would only appeal to a particular group of people. say things that are smart and witty but never act dumb that just makes you look incapable of holding a conversation.
9) Never get too caught up in yourself. It is okay to believe you are the greatest. However, trust me, not many people are going to agree (That is not an insult, it is just that everyone thinks that they, themselves are the greatest). Never show off, it just looks silly and normally makes you look as though you have lost your cool. Be modest around people, but always accept compliments and give compliments as well.
10) Be open to relationships. Never pass somebody off for being "not cool enough" or "too ugly" because normally these people are amazing and being friends with them will bring so much happiness to your life. Never think that just because somebody is a particular "type" of person (e.g emo, girly, preppy, weird, nerdy) people are going to think you are that type of person as well. In fact people will think you are great for being friends with so many different types of people. Don't just try to be friends with people who are "above you", if you think about it, the truly cool people are people who can't be "gone above" so to be friends with someone better than you means that you do not think you are the best. Being friends with people "below you" will give you a confidence boost and not make you look like you are obsessed with getting a good name. that doesn't mean that you can't also be friends with other great people.
Everyone is great, but in social situations not everyone thinks so.
TEEEEEEHEEEEE :D
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